Divorce is a very challenging time. During the wedding everyone’s there, gathered around, celebrating with you, your most special day! But during the marriage, barely we have people who check up on us, and even if they do, when problems a raise, it’s very hard for anyone to step into it without making it more complicated. With the emotional side of the feminine energy and the logical instincts of the masculine energy, it’s really hard for these two to co-exist.
Anyways I trust you all out there, if you have taken the call to divorce your partner, I trust you and your call for it. Marriage is hard and so is divorce. Choose your hard!
If that’s what you have chosen to do. Here’s a survival guide that barely anyone speaks about. How to survive through these hard times.
- Emotional support group - you need your friends who will support you. To deal with those mood swings, those hard feelings, those hard times and to vent out.
- Food and Sleep- Take care of your basic needs. It can be very hard to cook and get enough rest everyday when your mind isn’t focused.
- Financial situation - figure out your finances. Whether that means more education, or a better job, or saving up some extra cash.
- Separation - figure it out. Who moves out. Finding another place. Sorting out the childcare situation. Balancing your job, food and finances.
- Apply for the divorce -get a lawyer, figure out the terms and conditions of it.
- Have fun - enjoy your life! You deserve the best!
