2020 Jan went from snow storm to Portland trip for bday! Feb was all random things. Then came March with the news of a deadly virus. B got wfh for next 3 weeks. April went by, May end b fell sick and isolated himself in the basement. June beginning test result was negative! July mid I got severe unbearable stomach ache and went to emergency 🚨- drips taken! Then a couple days later with couple of scans taken found out it was gall stones. Cured with medication. August Balu and me had severe fights, friend Jen counseled us. We worked on it for a week and then went back to normal. Sept went by fine. Oct me and Tvisha went to Utah.. a much needed break from all the chaos! Once I came back, b was fully stressed by work, he went to the doc to find out he has high bp, then the doc prescribed a medication and that changed the entire story. Soon he faced many side effects. Rapid Weight loss was the most visible one and that was due to all the food allergies that arose. Nov end Balu went to emergency 🚨 with tooth ache. And then the next day for an emergency extraction of a then recently done root canal tooth. And then the same day he dailed 911- said he had confusion. While he did answer all the general questions he asked me to ask him, he still felt jittery and hence called 911. The professional advised him not to go to emergency. And he was just nervous and anxious. It was a panic attack that mimicked a stroke symptoms.
2021- hoping it gets better this year. Lol. Jan was all dentist appointments for me - 2 extractions and one root canal. Feb too had some dental things going on. Till March it was horrible days, and I waited for Balu to go to India, hoping things get better there. April- my parents came we had a gala time. May he and his parents came, my parents left, I told his mom everything that happened. She said she felt things were getting better from March. B continually questioned himself why all these was happening to him. Connecting all the relevant and irrelevant things together.. and then May- I closed peekaboo- my small business and sold everything. June we sold the house stating vaastu issues and hence all these were occurring. Once he sold the house, his boss at work left the job, who was causing a lot of stress at work! We got 30 days to move out- and we didn’t make a decision on where to move until really late. Found an independent house for rent. One Friday we moved out. Moved stuff to the house owners garage and got keys on Monday. And then we moved our stuffs to the new house that we are taking for rent. Inbetween we resided at a hotel. Can the rollercoaster ride just end?
July looking forward for some positivity!
Edited to add - July I burnt my mouth with hot tea, fighting with gums and tongue stinging- unable to eat anything. Really hot red the inside of my lips are. It hurts. Took 5.5 days to heal and eat normally.
August - loosing a friend - heart breaking
Sept - water pipe in bathroom broke and flooded home
Oct- Tvisha got throat infection,
have to vacate home for a week for bathroom repair work
Nov - falling out of love, decoupling moment- major fight! But recovering! When fights frequency is yearly once- they r huge, full on mental strain!
Crashed my car once again- on the ramp- rainy day - my bad day!
Edited to add:
Dec - was pretty fine- got my new car and a job! 31st night partied hard.. and fell a couple of times.. leading to body aches.. lol
2022
Jan - again fights began.. balu was going to casinos almost every night.. there was a lot of problems and silence leading to me getting really restless and clueless .. sad.. and upset..
Feb - fights continued.. I told my parents about them. B said he will try to reconcile.
March - went for therapy and art of living to deal with the panic attacks
April - May - June - tensions with job lasting, contract extension and job search..
June - balu was pressurizing me to take up all financial responsibilities.
July - went to Utah.. vacating Washington and then to California
Aug - Dec - new job was good.. settling in
2023
Jan - balu was maintaining multiple phones and chatting with numerous girls .. and made a trip to Texas to meet a girl..
Feb - we decided to separate ways
March - applied for divorce
April - Hawaii - divorcemoon
May - lost job
June - job hunting going on , Seattle trip - balu and his emotional dramas began
July - confessed divorce to parents
Aug - got job, moved a hour away from T, met her only weekends
Sept - again divorce and lawyer things continued
Oct -
Nov - car issue
Dec - Tvisha s bday!
Jan - court
