My 10 cents - quick tit bits for new couples

My 10 cents - Advice - quick tit bits for new couples (be it married or not) 

Life lessons learnt over the years --

No one put the words together 

Experiences in the long way brought them together 

1. Over-possessive over your partner and they are at the moment not equally the same? -- get a distraction, a hobby for yourself. 

2. Fighting a lot? No solutions as yet? -- take a break, go silent for a while.

3. When is the right time to get married? -- When you and your partner are financially stable, When you have a steady income, experience needed to easily find another, When you can support each other in times of need and When you have a decent saving/balance to live in times of crisis.
(Age doesn't matter)

4. Is sorry's and thank you's necessary? 

Yes if you take each other for granted and disrespect each other.

If not, then it's not required.

5. How to segregate your time? -- professional space, personal space and family time

Then social time - friends n extended family 

6. Your partner is testing your patience? -- I recently started this -- counting numbers ... That way I remember what I was talking n he replies too .. there's a gap of 30 seconds ... Gets on my nerves! Errr... 

7. A good habit -- save the good days n events -- write them down 

Will make you happy , when u look back to the memories of your wedding life .. Thou the present doesn't look that great .. On a rare bad day! 

8. Expectations and disappointments are quite natural -- can't avoid -- so better express them more often and get them to realistic ones 

9. Marriage is partnership! Justify it with all your daily chores! 

10. Dating and living together in a marriage are two different things. Both of you may change. No one to blame. So talk important things well ahead- financials, kids, dreams, goals!! 

I wish you live a honeymoon life all along!!

Realizing my honeymoon phase is all over! It's my second anniversary! Trying to hit the Refresh button every now and then, when we run off track! Life is rocking!!!